{"id":1537,"date":"2022-11-04T14:16:31","date_gmt":"2022-11-04T21:16:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/imho.kileozier.com\/?p=1537"},"modified":"2022-11-07T07:18:43","modified_gmt":"2022-11-07T15:18:43","slug":"many-roads-lead-to-rome","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/imho.kileozier.com\/?p=1537","title":{"rendered":"Many Roads Lead to Rome"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><a href=\"https:\/\/imho.kileozier.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Desert-Tech-Booth.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"768\" data-attachment-id=\"1538\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/imho.kileozier.com\/?attachment_id=1538\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/imho.kileozier.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Desert-Tech-Booth.jpg\" data-orig-size=\"1024,768\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"Desert Tech Booth\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-medium-file=\"https:\/\/imho.kileozier.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Desert-Tech-Booth-300x225.jpg\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/imho.kileozier.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Desert-Tech-Booth.jpg\" src=\"https:\/\/imho.kileozier.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Desert-Tech-Booth.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1538\" srcset=\"https:\/\/imho.kileozier.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Desert-Tech-Booth.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/imho.kileozier.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Desert-Tech-Booth-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/imho.kileozier.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Desert-Tech-Booth-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/imho.kileozier.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Desert-Tech-Booth-400x300.jpg 400w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">NEOM &#8211; Near Tabuk, KSA &#8211; Sept. 2, 2021 &#8211; &#8220;Discovering&#8221; a Natural Amphitheatre in the Desert.<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\">Some\u2026go to Design School<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\">Some\u2026get an MFA<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\">Some\u2026don\u2019t.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I&#8217;ve been asked by my students and the occasional TEA NextGen about my Career Path. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>How did I get to where I am (wherever that is)? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The answer is through trial and error, taking chances, following my nose, embracing opportunity, living the dream and living the nightmare, venturing out on the limb, surviving the falls&#8230;sometimes just barely, celebrating the victories&#8230;and acknowledging the teams that made those victories possible, knowing we rarely accomplish, alone&#8230;making mistakes and learning from them, from hiding neither the error nor the lesson learned from it and seeking the lessons inherent in everything&#8230; Trusting in the Universe to support&#8230;and learning that while the Universe will always support us, it may not be in the ways we might envision or prefer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And overall; that <em>nowhere<\/em> is it written in stone that one must stick with a chosen path when that path turns out to be a bad fit or a mistake. Learn from it, take the lessons along to the Next Thing, and the Next Thing, and the Next&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I do not believe that Everything Happens for a Reason. I do believe that there are lessons inherent in everything that happens. I believe that there is no shame in not knowing an answer, and that the shame is in hiding the not-knowing. I hope to learn every day, with every job and gig and in every relationship. Knowing everything would be boring; <em>n&#8217;est-\u00e7e pas<\/em>? I believe that Faking It til You&#8217; Make It is a philosophy founded on a Lie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I strive to learn openly, to seek and see the best that&#8217;s possible in others and give the best that&#8217;s possible from me. I believe in encouraging and inspiring others to venture out onto the Limb of What&#8217;s Possible. I believe in truth, clarity, integrity, honor and candor (sometimes to my political detriment), in saying what one means, meaning what one says and keeping one&#8217;s word&#8230;and acknowledging the occasional failure without excuse when one&#8217;s word goes unkept. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Those philosophies have made for an interesting journey through Life, and I am fairly certain that it ain&#8217;t over, yet. The Career Path has been circuitous, and every job embraced and completed has in some way informed the next one and the next one and those down the line. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So. All that in prelude to the laying out of my Career Path. It is clearly not a Route Planned and Followed; and I don&#8217;t know that I would recommend it. When and if I write an autobiography or memoirs, the title will be &#8220;Don&#8217;t Try This at Home!&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Though, here I am with a veritable wealth of Experience and experiences, a vast panoply of unique friends and unforgettable acquaintances and the knowledge gained from jumping in with both feet, digging in with both hands to every opportunity that appeals. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So. Beginning in 1967:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Car Wash (Klamath Falls, OR)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Floral Delivery Guy (also Klamath Falls)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Stockroom @ Lane Bryant (Also Klamath Falls.)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Swim Coach \/ Lifeguard \/ City Pool Manager (Yreka, CA)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Bartender (Georgetown. DC)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Waiter \/ Bartender Olde Ebbitt Grill (DC)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Movie Theatre Manager (Key Theatre &#8211; Georgetown)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Fly-Ahead \/ In-Port Program Manager &#8211; South Pacific and Asia (Semester at Sea)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Waiter \/ Bartender (Steak &amp; Ale\/Orange County Mining Company (Orange, CA)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Staff Member <strong>Senator Mark O. Hatfield<\/strong> (DC)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Staff Member GSA (DC)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Staff Member US Dept of State \/ US Youth Council (DC)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>National Youth Director President Ford Campaign<\/strong> (DC) 12 Advance Teams x 3 Events per day, Nationwide, General Campaign.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Executive Director American Petroleum Refiner\u2019s Association Political Action Committee (DC)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Director Tom Wiens for State Treasurer Campaign (Denver)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>1979 Came Out. Left Republican Politics. Moved to San Francisco.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Import Coordinator Levi Strauss &amp; Co (SF)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Director Corporate Communications San Francisco Chamber of Commerce<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Writer \/ Reporter Pacific Telesis Corporate Communications (SF)&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Show and Event Producer @ FM Productions (SF)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>December 31, 1979\/January 1, 1980 &#8211; First appearance onstage at \u201cBeach Blanket Babylon\u201d&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>1984 &#8211; 1990 Self-Employed \/ Freelance Ceremony, State Visits of Presidents, Queens, Religious leaders, Quarterbacks, Inaugural and Fleet Week productions, National Theatrical Tours, Writing Team for \u201c<strong>Beach Blanket Babylon Goes to the Stars<\/strong>\u201d (with Armistead Maupin and Steve Silver SF) and Producer \u201cHands Across America\u201d (Chicago), Writer, Director, Producer of National Centennial Tour for <strong>Stanford University<\/strong> (raised US$1billion from ballrooms full of weeping millionaires).<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>1990 &#8211; 1995 Self-Employed \/ Freelance Movie Location Manager Film (Los Angeles) \u201cDecember,\u201d \u201cMe, Myself and I\u201d many forgettables.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>1992 &#8211; <strong>Candlelight Ceremony National AIDS Memorial Quilt @ Lincoln Memorial<\/strong>. Writer, Producer ,Director. Audience of 250,000<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>1993 &#8211; 1994 <strong>Gay Games Opening\/Closing Ceremonies Yankee Stadium<\/strong> Producer Director Audience of 60,000<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>1994 &#8211; 1995 Universal Studios Attraction Development<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>1995 &#8211; 1996 <strong>Creative Director Universal Studios Florida<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>1996 &#8211; Left Orlando for Manhattan.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>1996 &#8211; 2008 Self Employed Producer &amp; Consulting Development Officer (NYC) <strong>Harvard Law<\/strong>, Babson College, <strong>Stanford University<\/strong> Touring Campaign for Undergraduate Education (another $1Billion +), Hamilton College, Mayo Clinic, Hotopp, Carabiner, Jack Morton, ICE, Other agencies<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>2005 &#8211; 2006 <strong>Opening Closing Ceremonies Gay Games Soldier Field &amp; Wrigley Field<\/strong>. Writer, Creative Director, Director<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>2009 &#8211; Live Show Producer (Melbourne, Sydney, Perth Australia)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>2010 &#8211; Specialist and Studio Instructor, <strong>Apple SoHo<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>2011 &#8211; Director 50th Anniversary Celebrations <strong>Amnesty International<\/strong> &#8211; USA (NYC)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>2012 &#8211; Launched the Blog: <a href=\"https:\/\/imho.kileozier.com\/\">https:\/\/imho.kileozier.com\/<\/a>&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>2012 &#8211; 2013 Studio Instructor <strong>Apple<\/strong> <strong>SF<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>2013 &#8211; 2016 to Dubai &#8211; State and <strong>Dubai National Day<\/strong> Ceremonies, Brand Experience and Product Launches, <strong>Motiongate<\/strong> Theme Park, <strong>Dubai Eye<\/strong>, Opened <strong>YAS Waterworld<\/strong>, Wrote\/Directed &#8220;Hoyamal!&#8221; Pearl Diving Show, also for YAS Waterworld.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>2016 &#8211; return to SF for several months. Met an amazing guy.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>2016 &#8211; return to Dubai to write Live Show and Streetmosphere strategy with <strong>EXPO2020DUBAI<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>2017 &#8211; return to SF self employment and My Amazing Guy. Palo Alto History Museum<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>2017 &#8211; 2019 Looking for work. (SF) Lyft Driver<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>2019 &#8211; Consulting Creative Director &#8211; Freeman XP\/San Francisco<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>2020 &#8211; COVID &#8211; dead in the water. Built the Book: \u201c<strong>IMEx &#8211; In My Experience | secrets of making \u2018em cheer, weep\u2026and sometimes write checks<\/strong>\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/books.apple.com\/us\/book\/imex-in-my-experience\/id1518649025\">https:\/\/books.apple.com\/us\/book\/imex-in-my-experience\/id1518649025<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>April 2021 &#8211; July 2022 &#8211; <strong>Director of Concept Integrity<\/strong> @ SELA Parks and Events, Saudi Arabia (Festivals, Ceremonies, Destination Design.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>and, btw:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Schools:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Georgetown University School of Foreign Service BS &#8211; Graduated on Schedule<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Italian Studies Center of Portland State U at Pavia Italy &#8211; Sophomore Year<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Chapman College &#8211; now Chapman University &#8211; 2nd Frosh Semester<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Semester at Sea &#8211; 1st Frosh Semester<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>_____________________________________________________________________________<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Popular throughout the Milky Way and Andromeda galaxies, \u201c<strong>IMEX: In My Experience | secrets of making \u2018em cheer, weep\u2026and sometimes write checks<\/strong>\u201d is now available in the beautiful and durable Field Edition as well as download from Apple Books. Contact me at&nbsp;<a href=\"mailto:kile@kileozier.com\">kile@kileozier.com<\/a>&nbsp;for purchase and shipping information.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Link to Apple Books: <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/books.apple.com\/us\/book\/imex-in-my-experience\/id1518649025\">https:\/\/books.apple.com\/us\/book\/imex-in-my-experience\/id1518649025<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Unfortunately, the book is not available through Kindle, Kindle does not publish in landscape. Bummer. I am recording this for Audiobooks, targeted for December.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/imho.kileozier.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/Field-Edition-Cover-Photo.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"761\" data-attachment-id=\"1517\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/imho.kileozier.com\/?attachment_id=1517\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/imho.kileozier.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/Field-Edition-Cover-Photo.png\" data-orig-size=\"2690,2000\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"Field-Edition-Cover-Photo\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-medium-file=\"https:\/\/imho.kileozier.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/Field-Edition-Cover-Photo-300x223.png\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/imho.kileozier.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/Field-Edition-Cover-Photo-1024x761.png\" src=\"https:\/\/imho.kileozier.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/Field-Edition-Cover-Photo-1024x761.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1517\" srcset=\"https:\/\/imho.kileozier.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/Field-Edition-Cover-Photo-1024x761.png 1024w, https:\/\/imho.kileozier.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/Field-Edition-Cover-Photo-300x223.png 300w, https:\/\/imho.kileozier.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/Field-Edition-Cover-Photo-768x571.png 768w, https:\/\/imho.kileozier.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/Field-Edition-Cover-Photo-1536x1142.png 1536w, https:\/\/imho.kileozier.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/Field-Edition-Cover-Photo-2048x1523.png 2048w, https:\/\/imho.kileozier.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/Field-Edition-Cover-Photo-404x300.png 404w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Some\u2026go to Design School Some\u2026get an MFA Some\u2026don\u2019t.&nbsp; I&#8217;ve been asked by my students and the occasional TEA NextGen about my Career Path. 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