{"id":1294,"date":"2020-08-03T17:02:35","date_gmt":"2020-08-04T00:02:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/imho.kileozier.com\/?p=1294"},"modified":"2020-08-04T11:12:03","modified_gmt":"2020-08-04T18:12:03","slug":"your-mother-wont-be-here-anymore-bambi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/imho.kileozier.com\/?p=1294","title":{"rendered":"Your Mother Won&#8217;t Be Here Anymore, Bambi&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"964\" data-attachment-id=\"1301\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/imho.kileozier.com\/?attachment_id=1301\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/imho.kileozier.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/Trajectory-Control.png\" data-orig-size=\"1294,1218\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"Trajectory-Control\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-medium-file=\"https:\/\/imho.kileozier.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/Trajectory-Control-300x282.png\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/imho.kileozier.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/Trajectory-Control-1024x964.png\" src=\"https:\/\/imho.kileozier.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/Trajectory-Control-1024x964.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1301\" srcset=\"https:\/\/imho.kileozier.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/Trajectory-Control-1024x964.png 1024w, https:\/\/imho.kileozier.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/Trajectory-Control-300x282.png 300w, https:\/\/imho.kileozier.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/Trajectory-Control-768x723.png 768w, https:\/\/imho.kileozier.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/Trajectory-Control-319x300.png 319w, https:\/\/imho.kileozier.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/Trajectory-Control.png 1294w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>It is not possible to end-run a virus.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A virus cannot be second-guessed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The virus does not care about our sense of entitlement to roam free, what we may believe we \u201cdeserve\u201d or to what we think we have a \u201cright.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The virus wants only one thing; and that is our death; to feed on us until there is nothing left to consume, then on to the next host.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If we don\u2019t like it; then we are free to not vote for the virus. The virus does not care.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The spectacular failure of the United States in dealing with this virus sits on more than just the shoulders of our self-interested administration. We now know &#8211; to no one\u2019s surprise &#8211; that those in power have seen this pandemic as a political opportunity from the outset: placing our lives as expendable in the greater picture of their popularity and profit.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Though, these are not the only complicit.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Business and political leadership and \u201cjournalist\u201d mouthpieces have &#8211; from mere weeks into the pandemic &#8211; been calling \u201cwhen can we reopen the economy\u2026??\u201d Implying from the outset that this is about the economy before being about people. While most of the country began immediately to worry about feeding their families and keeping them warm and protected; the networks were giving advice on 401K\u2019s and recommending buying laptops for the kids to study at home\u2026broadcasting from well-appointed NYC apartments and green-lawned Connecticut homes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Shamelessly tone-deaf.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Throughout the civilized world (which seems, <em>de facto<\/em>, to no longer include the USA), citizens complained about being quarantined for weeks and months\u2026but they did it. They complied with medical and government directive in order to shut down the disease as much and as quickly as possible. In doing so, many discovered how much more they could accomplish without the commute, the increase in time with families or their own thoughts (though being alone with one&#8217;s thoughts <em>can<\/em> make some uncomfortable).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Except here in the US. Here, we argue with fact, we argue with evidence that does not fit our wishes, we assert \u201crights\u201d about which the virus gives not a &lt;redacted&gt;. Thus, we die.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We coin catchy phrases such as \u201cThe New Normal\u201d and ask Are We There Yet? \u201cWhen can we get back to normal?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cBack.\u201d&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>When can we get back to normal?<\/li><li>When will we reopen the Economy?<\/li><li>When can I stop being responsible for my actions?<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Within weeks of inception, high-profile companies in various industries began to issue \u201cWhite papers\u201d full of expert opinions on how it\u2019s all going to look when this crisis has passed; when it\u2019s \u201cprobably\u201d going to end and to intimate that we\u2019re talking months and \u201cmaybe\u201d a year. All this conjecture is based on\u2026nothing factual. This is opinion and fantasy (well, to be fair, some of these presumptive soothsayers &#8211; storytelling colleagues of my own industries &#8211; actually create and sell fantasy, so what else might we expect?) presented as knowledge.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So; fantasy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Succumbing to public and political pressure: Disney opens, then closes; restaurants open, then close; beaches open, then close; people gather, then die. As though demanding to breathe among crowds makes the inhaled air safe \u201cbecause it is my RIGHT!&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Springtime gatherings are pushed to summer, as though those few months are going to see magical disappearance of this organic menace. Finally, the cancellations. All the big stuff is now (optimistically) postponed to 2021\u2026and y\u2019all, that is optimistic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Personally, I find the opening of theme parks during this pandemic &#8211; especially as it rages through the US &#8211; as egregiously irresponsible. Disney\u2019s opening is taken as a signal to the entire country that it\u2019s okay to get together\u2026\u201dDisney\u2019s doing it, so we can do it\u2026meet me at the &lt;name of local thing&gt; and we\u2019ll &lt;fill in group activity that will result in dropping adherence to social distancing guidelines and ultimately kill more people&gt;.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Whether or not you went to Pandemic Disney and adhered to social distancing policies; we know that is not the case for every park guest, all day. And we know that the example that sets gives thousands if not millions throughout the US a sense of false security and \u201cThis Thing Being Almost Over.\u201d&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s not almost over.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>NO one knows, can know or can have the solution until this virus is understood fully and a vaccine is tested and available. This is another year, minimum. Min. I. Mum. To presume to predict how it\u2019s all going to look while all the parts are still freely moving is a little foolish and a lot delusional.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Friends and countrybeings; there IS no going back; NO \u201cNormal\u201d to which we might return\u2026and no \u201cNormal\u201d to which we might find our way. It is vastly irresponsible of our press and politicians to have pushed that delusional concept upon us\u2026&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ain\u2019t no cavalry comin\u2019. Best to find a way to accept this.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Perhaps\u2026?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Perhaps we might stop Predicting and spend this energy on Observing.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Maybe we could STFU, stop pushing for and demanding what is not possible, stop deluding ourselves and begin simply observing the world around us &#8211; and our possible places in it\u2026&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This is organic. Unresponsive to physics and politics; unphased by our desire, our wants or needs. It will take its own time to unfold, to be addressed and until a new reality manifests. Until that reality is evident, <strong>until there is a vaccine<\/strong>, all we <em>can<\/em> do is observe. Observe and consider options; but make plans? I think not.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I see limitless potential in embracing the absence of knowledge.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I offer that we could be spending this time in observation and self-examination: who am I, what do I bring to the table, what are my values, what do I value, who do I value, what is my value? What might I do to support myself and what is my responsibility to community\u2026and how might I fulfill that?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Everyone has something to discover, to teach, to share.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Certainly, the vast numbers who have been working in now-and-newly-handicapped industries &#8211; theatre, entertainment, theme parks, restaurants, leisure, recreation, exercise eminent among them &#8211; need immediate support, security and assurance during this \u201ctemporary\u201d hiatus. We must find ways to help our comrades, colleagues, peers and neighbors; it\u2019s going to get worse before it gets better.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That said, it might be wise to see \u201ctemporary\u201d in the context of the cosmic smackdown taking place.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We are not talking days and weeks: rather, we are looking at months and quite likely years before anyone can actually relax and mingle.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Years, y\u2019all.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>IMHO.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\">and now, The BOOK!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\">Now in <strong>Kickstarter<\/strong> Phase, to be published in early September. Two weeks remain open for participation.  <a href=\"https:\/\/www.kickstarter.com\/projects\/kileozier\/imex-in-my-experience-tactile-edition?ref=nav_search&amp;result=project&amp;term=IMEx\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">https:\/\/www.kickstarter.com\/projects\/kileozier\/imex-in-my-experience-tactile-edition?ref=nav_search&amp;result=project&amp;term=IMEx<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"711\" data-attachment-id=\"1309\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/imho.kileozier.com\/?attachment_id=1309\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/imho.kileozier.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/IMEx-Cover-4-Zoom-1.png\" data-orig-size=\"2034,1412\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"IMEx-Cover-4-Zoom-1\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-medium-file=\"https:\/\/imho.kileozier.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/IMEx-Cover-4-Zoom-1-300x208.png\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/imho.kileozier.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/IMEx-Cover-4-Zoom-1-1024x711.png\" src=\"https:\/\/imho.kileozier.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/IMEx-Cover-4-Zoom-1-1024x711.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1309\" srcset=\"https:\/\/imho.kileozier.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/IMEx-Cover-4-Zoom-1-1024x711.png 1024w, https:\/\/imho.kileozier.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/IMEx-Cover-4-Zoom-1-300x208.png 300w, https:\/\/imho.kileozier.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/IMEx-Cover-4-Zoom-1-768x533.png 768w, https:\/\/imho.kileozier.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/IMEx-Cover-4-Zoom-1-1536x1066.png 1536w, https:\/\/imho.kileozier.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/IMEx-Cover-4-Zoom-1-432x300.png 432w, https:\/\/imho.kileozier.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/IMEx-Cover-4-Zoom-1.png 2034w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It is not possible to end-run a virus.&nbsp; A virus cannot be second-guessed. 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